Transgender Bill Opponents Speak Out at Council Meeting
Council approves new lease with Baltimore County Revenue Authority, improvements to the animal shelter and a $4.5 million bond issuance for a windshield wiper manufacturer in Halethorpe.
Opponents of a proposed transgender anti-discrimination bill returned to Towson Monday night to speak out against the proposed legislation.
Ann Miller, a Republican activist, told the council that opponents "are not the bigotted, hate-mongers we're labeled as by the special interests backing this bill.
"Our concerns are valid and serious and (the bill) would negatively impact the entire county," said Miller.
The testimony of about 15 people was nearly identical to that given two weeks ago when Councilman Tom Quirk, a Catonsville Democrat, first introduced the bill.
The bill will be similar to a law passed last month by the Howard County Council, Quirk said. Proponents of the legislation say it was spurred by a highly- publicized attack on Chrissy Polis, a transgendered Rosedale woman, last year.
One of the most controversial aspects of the law is a section dealing with the use of public accommodations, including public restrooms.
Miller said the words "gender identity and expression" were problematic and asked that they be removed from the bill. She also raised concerns about the potential for educational requirements related to transgender persons.
Supporters of the bill said there is no requirement for schools to teach transgender related classes.
Mark Patro, president of the Baltimore County chapter of Parents, Families and Friends of Gays and Lesbians, was the only supporter of the bill to testify.
"There's nobody here from my community here tonight because we literally get tired of listening to this when they beat on us constantly," said Patro. "They start their speech with a lie and they ram it until it sounds reasonable."
Patro said the bill is about "reaching out to people who are not protected."
The council is scheduled to hold a hearing on the bill, which has three co-sponsors, next Tuesday.
The bill is similar to one passed in Howard County last year and state law that was rejected by the Maryland General Assembly a year ago.
Earlier in the evening, the council unanimously approved:
• A resolution that calls on the city, which owns the Loch Raven Reservoir property, and biking enthusiasts to develop a partnership aimed at enhancing the trail system and protecting the reservoir.
The resolution carries no legal requirements.
• A new consolidated lease with the Baltimore County Revenue Authority. The lease governs the authority's management of four Towson-area public parking garages and allows the county to take control of the Washington and Baltimore Avenue facilities when bonds for those garages are paid off in 2019.
"Over the years it's become clear that the government needed to be in control of these garages it pays fees on," said Fred Homan during a meeting last week. He added: "We end up being responsible for most of what goes on" at the garage.
• Spending $22,460 for improvements to the county animal shelter including work on the "get acquainted" room used for adoptions. A majority of the money used comes from an endowment left by the estate of Audrey Dix.
• A three-year contract with Realauction.com to manage online tax sales. The contract has seven one-year extensions. Total value of the 10-year deal is not to exceed $100,000.
• Issuing up to $4.5 million in revenue bonds to allow Alberee Products to finance costs associated with the purchase and renovation of a building in the 4600 block of Hollins Ferry Road in Halethorpe. The company, which manufactures windshield wiper blades, moved from Baltimore City to the building in the Southwest Enterprise Zone in September 2010.
The county said it expects the company to expand its workforce from 70 to 97 by September 2013.
The county does not incur any liability and Alberee will repay all principal and interest on the bonds.
Beth Shepherd
2:20 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
If they want to protect the rights of transgenders, they should designate certain rest rooms as gender neutral rather than allowing that all public rest rooms be required to allow transgender persons. This would help to alleviate any fears that the law would be abused by those who use it for their own gain and keep the creepers out of the women's rest rooms.
Sara
5:15 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
That's a thinly disguised, "Separate but equal" solution and does nothing to protect the rights of trans people.
Transgender people are people and deserve to be treated as such. While gender neutral and 'family' bathrooms are wonderful, when there are already two existing bathrooms marked M and F, everyone has been doing just fine for decades with trans people using the bathroom that matches their appearance and identity. It's extremely likely you've used the bathroom at the same time as them, didn't know and didn't care. There has *never* been a recorded rape or attack in a restroom where the non-trans person was the one being attacked. Never. It's a scare tactic conjured from nothing by people who were (incorrectly) taught that trans people are somehow morally wrong and should not be allowed to even exist.
Trans people just want to use the facilities and leave, just like everyone else.
Paul Amirault
5:34 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Well put Sara, it is an attempt at solving a non-existent problem.
Tim
2:56 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Are there really 'creepers' acting as transgenders in women's rest rooms? I'm not a woman, so humor me here.
This concept just strikes me as remarkably and an almost unimaginable level of depravity.
Not to mention, aren't all of the stalls private in your bathrooms? What would some epicly depraved guy get from sitting in a stall, making believe he's got gender issues, while other women are in other stalls?
I just don't get it.
Paul Amirault
3:11 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Fear.
Kiara C.H.
5:01 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Transgender Bill Oponents should wait to speak about something they actually know ANYTHING about.
Anneka Jameson
5:46 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
The solution is simple. 1) If this is a problem, stop using public restrooms, and 2) Move to Howard or Montgomery Country where the bills are worded to address your concerns.
Bill Howard
7:00 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Had some of you been there you would know. Half of the people who testified were in fact actual rape victims. They are truly afraid. There ARE many cases of males dressed as femails going into locker rooms, dressing rooms and restrooms. Some take phone cameras and other devices in there and take pictures of women and children. Despite what the artical says, it will effect the schools as well as it will apply to those public facilities. Its easy for advocates to call people liars and haters but they cannot change the facts. This bill will be something we will all regret.
Paul Amirault
7:23 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Bill, You state there are many cases of males dressed as females going into restrooms and the implication is that rape occurs. What is the source of your data? Give everyone the links please.
Tim
8:21 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Bill, so now you're punishing transgender people because a poor women were raped by someone else entirely different?
As far as the other claim you make about guys taking phone cameras into bathrooms...I'll have to ask around with some of my female colleagues and ask them if they've ever been in a bathroom with a guy in this situation.
Additionally, nothing will stop any depraved individual from 'acting' like a transgender in either case and doing the same heinous activities - now will it?
Like Paul, I'd love to see the internet based references/statistics that I'm sure were presented at this hearing. I'm sure this wasn't another Salem witch hunt.
Bottom line is people have been using religion to hold other human beings - American citizens - in this country for centuries.
Tim
8:23 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Related note: Prop 8 ruling as Unconstitutional was upheld by the Federal Court of Appeals today. It'll go to the Supreme Court - and they too will uphold the judgment as this is basic human rights continually being repressed.
Mark Patro
8:33 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Show me the evidence Bill
Erika Butler
7:24 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
What I want to know is is how you wld prevent bathroom rape by blocking the passage of this bill. I guess the transgender community will have to conrinue to suffer bc of misunderstandings and unfounded fears and be stuck in that trilemma of shd I try the one that matches my presentation, which is the least embarrassing and insulting to me, shd I try the one that wld match what some ppl say I shd use, to avoid having the cops possibly called but which cld attract a lot of unwanted attention leading possibly to violence and in event being insulting to me, or shd I just try to hold it and go elsewhere, straining my kidneys? If a tg person is confident that they wld not be rejected, then they wld usually pick the 1st option, otherwise they pick the 3rd; the 2nd is out of the question, as avoiding that option becomes a painful resolve
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
11:00 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Thank you, Erika.
Buck Harmon
7:45 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Transgender human beings are currently afforded the same protection as every other human being. A new law would be discriminating... why should any fraction of the human being population receive additional, or extra protection over others?
A very bad bill that will never be enforced fairly.
Sara
5:10 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
Actually, they are not. In fact it's not even close. Trans people, masculine-but-not-trans women and not-masculine-enough men can all legally be denied a job, a place to live, the use of public transit, the ability to buy and try on clothes...all because of someone else's choice to be uncomfortable with someone who doesn't fit their idea of "male" or "female", "man" or "woman".
Buck Harmon
10:00 am on Saturday, February 11, 2012
Sara, I can be turned down for a job... in fact, I would say that most people have been turned down or excluded from a job....point?
Sara
8:41 pm on Saturday, February 11, 2012
The point being, Buck, is that you should be turned down for a job because you aren't the most qualified person. There are very few jobs where simply being transgender would disqualify someone, yet trans people suffer among the highest levels of discrimination based solely on people's ignorance and often, nothing more than a lack of familiarity. A bill like this actually covers anyone who is turned down because they don't meet some arbitrary standard of male or female. But it's not just being turned down for a job, it covers housing and public accommodations, too. When was the last time you were told you couldn't use the restroom, try on some clothes or ride the bus because you weren't "man enough"?
Mike McAuliffe
8:46 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
I read the comments from both sides and personally I think this bill is a bad idea. Though the bill's sponsor and co-sponsors have good intentions of ensuring equal rights to all humans, they are extremely flawed in entering into the precedent of defining human's sexual tendencies. I really don't know why the existing word "SEX" can't be replaced with the word "GENDER", then simply define the word GENDER as "A MALE, FEMALE, OR HYBRID OF BOTH". This language is a lot less sloppy and less intricate. This should cover everyone. The bill as it presently reads was obviously written to appease a group of people looking for a hug. We really don't need to know about peoples' sexuality. HETEROSEXUAL, HOMOSEXUAL, BISEXUAL... the County Council needs to relegate these words to the science and psychology books, and not insert them into the Baltimore County Code. Com'on.
Sara
2:46 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
Mike,
Sex, Sex Identity, Gender Identity, Gender Expression and Sexuality are separate aspects of a person that in the majority of people correlate consistently enough that most people don't even realize they are separate. And none of the them are absolute in any given person. Each is its own spectrum and no one exists that is "100% man" or "100% woman" in every respect. Even 'sex' which is usually taken to mean biologically male or female is actually a pair of very closely overlapped bell curves (one is only somewhat offset from the other & the values that belong only to one & not the other are ...unusual, and extreme).
Bills like this exist because some small number of people simply assume based only on their own experience or based on certain flawed moral values that a large enough variation in any of these aspects from average must be an intentional, antisocial decision on the part of the person in question. In reality nothing could be farther from the truth. It's like saying someone with Cerebral Palsy chooses to walk differently from everyone else. But that small group of misinformed people will use that decision of morality to deny trans people a job, a home and even the use of public accommodations such as bathrooms and buses.
Mike McAuliffe
12:03 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
Sara,
I read your below explanation 5 times and I still really don't understand it. A lot of people in these postings have been trying to explain the various sexual terms and it always gets way too complicated, which reaffirms my comment that they should be left to the science books. I'm sure the Councilpersons are not even thinking on this issue in a deeply scientific way either (as they should not have to). It's great that there are people like you that are compassionate enough to better understand these folks and try to educate others in their behalf, but the Baltimore County Code is not the place to get the word out there. PFLAG should instead set up a campaign to bring awareness to their members, like other groups have, like breast cancer awareness. I, personally would not get involved with the campaign, but I'm sure some people would.
Mike McAuliffe
9:01 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
The McDonald's beating of a transgendered person has bean hi-jacked by a group of people pushing this legislation. The beating was brutal, but I see similar beatings on You-tube and the TV news all the time. None of them are right, so the perpetrators are/ and were prosecuted, just as in this case, because the law protected them regardless of their gender, whether it be Hetero, Homo, Bi, or Hybrid. What part of Ms. Polis's attackers' prosecution and sentencing is Mr. Patro not satisfied with. He keeps using Ms. Polis as Exhibit A, but there is no merit in his case. None of this bill will prevent the two McDonald's customers from beating up anyone else in the future. Mr. Patro really needs to bring forth better and legitimate examples of discrimination and a more credible poster child.
RARE MARYLAND INDEPENDENT
9:01 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Let's have the politicians supporting this bill put their money where their mouth is. The democrats are looking to develop another group of voters to exploit, against the busines people of Maryland. Many of our esteemed politicians do own businesses. Let's put their feet to the fire. Mr. Quirk, I assume you are self employed with a Raymond James franchise. Since you are the sponsor of the bill, will you GUARANTEE that the next person you hire for YOUR business will be a transgendered individual? Would love to come in to your office and have a transgendered receptionist great me. Let's see how that goes over with YOUR clients. Let's have anyone who votes FOR this bill make that pledge and check on them to see if the walk the walk.
Mike McAuliffe
12:26 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
RARE really strapped on a set of coconuts. Good point RARE. It is often said that a businessman knows only one color...green. An inference to him being blind to the color of a productive employee's skin color. Will these sponsors be sexually blind to the point of hiring a receptionist in a skirt sporting a 5 o'clock shadow sprouting through her makeup in the late evening meetings with perspective clients? It's not my call. It will be theirs and theirs to face a lawsuit when challenged by an employee found to not be suitable for their business.
One thing that is overlooked by the proponents is the fact that transgendered people don't just magically overnight transform into the opposite sex. I'm sure that many go through very awkward transformations and often give the appearance of an anomaly that could be very hurtful to a business. Really who the hell in their right mind is going to drop their 2 year old off to a daycare center that has Chas Bono or Ms. Polis working there as a child development nurturer.
Josephine Hlatki
10:38 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Thank you. It's obvious the LGBTs lobbied for this long before we tripped over it. Quirk called it a Human Relations Bill to cover up what it really is about.
Buck Harmon
10:44 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Wow Mike... that child development nurturer thought ... set a shiver..
Sara
5:21 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
The problem with the 'receptionist' argument is that all businesses should then be free to not hire anyone unsexy-enough for any public facing position. Follow that slope and the business world would look like the inside of a Hooters restaurant.
Insofar as the child care issue goes, that's another fake scare tactic. There's a far higher correlation of devout Christian care providers harming, assaulting and molesting children than trans people (hint: I can find *zero* news stories of that every happening with a trans person in *any* position where they work with kids. And hundreds of stories about non-trans care providers doing such horrible, horrible things).
Mike McAuliffe
12:25 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
Buck, your comments are completely logical and give none of the proponents room for legitimate rebuttal. A lot of commenters find this bill so ridiculous that they can't help making an a outlandish (but well deserved) comment. I do find the outlandish ones funny though and having some merit when I think of how far this issue could go in the future.
If the child care nurturer thing gave you the creeps, here's what gives me more creeps... If I sent my 18 year old daughter to Towson State University and was paying the $9,000 dollar dormitory fee only have her share dorms bathroom with an "experimenting in transitioning male" who applied as a female. How is this going to be handled when the university takes a hands off approach because it's too sensitive.
OK sensitive folks, I know that this bill does address this and you consider it a separate issue, but it an issue that PFLAG will be sure to push next.
Hey! who let the worms out?
Mike McAuliffe
12:51 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
Sara,
Employers need to have some discretion as to who they want to hire. I would be turned down for a job at Hooters too, because I don't have double D's, but that's OK. I'm not complaining. I too, realize as much as the Hooters manager does, that I would probably not benefit her business. Boobs and butts are their business. Their food is sub-par and doesn't bring the customers in. I wouldn't get hired as a Chippendale either, because I look like the white version of JJ from Good Times. No complaints though, I understand that large red bow tie wouldn't be enough to disguise my bony ribs, and I'd have the night club emptied out before I could even get to the Speedos. I'll knock on Home Depot's door where they'd want me. All Hetero, Homo, Bi, Trans, once gay now back, whatever sexuals just have to deal with the "unfair" world in which we live. Life is just tough by nature.
Bill Howard
10:21 pm on Tuesday, February 7, 2012
Paul, Tim, and Mark......Show us the evidence that this bill would have prevented the incident at McDonalds. All three of the individuals involved have had multiple criminal issues. Liberal lenient court systems could not stop them either. Your bill will not stop it as well. Show me the evidence that these women who testified will still be safe. Show me the evidence that our society has NOT eroded of the passed two generations. Show me evidence that LGBT groups have NO interest in children. This is your bill the burden of proof is on you. The rape victims that testified were real. Shame their fears are not respected.
Tim
12:03 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
You want to talk about why our society is where it is today? I could write thousands of words on why.
Reason 1 - the sad state of the nuclear family compared to when we all grew up.
It's more then having the "stay at home MOM" of yesteryear. Families take work from both mother and father, and on the whole Generation Y's parents have failed. Badly. It's produced young parents today who are at great risk of continuing the cycle. We are what we know, right? The cycle needs to be broken, somehow.
There's no better evidence of this then the rise of religion again in politics. You know, religion, that thing that's purely subjective and does nothing but repress others.
Reason #2: Our society has eroded because trickle-down economics and a corrupt tax system have destroyed the actual middle class in this nation. The 1% in this country make 40% of the wealth, and with our largely Republican run government the past 30 years, that spread has continually increased. Congress is bought and paid for, and when crazy tax benefits weren't enough for wealthy corporations, our Government decided it would be a great idea to allow them to ship all of those American jobs overseas!
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Tim
12:05 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Your attempt at hiding behind the fears of rape victims is either utterly sad, or grossly misguided (I can't decide which). An intellectually desperate measure because you know it's the only thing resembling an excuse to repress THOUSANDS of other innocent people who - through no fault of their own - lead sexually messed up lives. Do you actually think people "sign up" for this??
I fully respect the fears of rape victims. Unlike you, I'd do so by addressing the real issue - our liberal judicial system. Go after the rapists.
Oh no...that'd make too much sense, and wouldn't advance your group's goals, now would it?
Mark Patro
5:29 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
No one in favor of passing this legislation has ever claimed this bill would have prevented the brutal beating in Rosedale. That was and remains the Patch reporter's spin on how this legislative effort started. This bill is about preventing discrimination, violence is a different issue.
Kate
8:05 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Wow. The level of stereotyping and ingrained discrimination on this comment board is so pervasive, I hardly know where to begin. Perhaps we can start with some actual statistics, real information, and a link to a report on the national transgender discrimination survey: http://www.thetaskforce.org/downloads/reports/reports/ntds_summary.pdf
This study gathered real information from t/g individuals and showed the level of discrimination they receive every day of their lives - for many, in every single aspect of their life. Even the slim few who receive unconditional support at home from their loving families (a very small percentage, to be sure), will still face constant opposition in regards to work, housing, social services. and health benefits. Can you imagine the indignity of then having to face an actual choice in regards to with restroom you will be most comfortable walking into - having to weigh the options of what might await you inside either one? As well, it needs to be clarified that "a receptionist in a skirt sporting a 5 o'clock shadow sprouting through her makeup in the late evening meetings with perspective clients" is not in any way an honest description of what a trasgender individual is or means.
Rick
10:53 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
You are correct. I too am sometimes surprised by the uninformed, and often discriminating, comments. However, comment/bulletin boards like this allow for people to voice their opinions as if no one is listening. A lot of times people comment on things that do not, and will never, affect them, I accept 'freedom of speech' but it sometimes borders on hate speech. Thanks for the link to the study, BTW.
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
10:59 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Thanks for the link!
al walker
8:07 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
this is the stupidest thing i have heard all year. if you have a penis use the mens room if you have a v use the womens room. just because you dress up like halloween everyday doesnt make you different. it makes you dressed up.
Kate
8:16 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Wow. Please educate yourself before you say things. Transgender individuals are NOT playing dress-up. This comment is pure ignorance.
Sara
5:29 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
It's telling when someone can spell out one shape of genitals but not the other. And likely speaks to the heart of this campaign against the non-discrimination legislation...
Kate
8:07 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
A transgender person, FYI, is not the same as a cross-dresser (who by the way, would not be caught dead sporting a 5 o'clock shadow, and takes considerable time and effort to present themselves as the opposite of their birth gender). A transgender person is someone who is born into a body that does not match the INTERNAL gender to which they feel true. I am a woman. I was born in a female body, and it suits me perfectly. I have never had to deal with the issue of feeling like I was born in the wrong skin. Clearly, neither have those who so frivolously expressed themselvers here. But imagine waking up every day with a body and body parts that feel foreign to you - as if you are in a nightmare and can't wake up. Everyone around you says "You are a girl. You are a girl. You are a girl.", but inside your heart and soul, you know for 100% certain that you are not. You are a boy (or man), with all that encompasses. And no one understands or believes you. It is heartbreaking. Please feel free to educate yourselves about the lives of these human beings, who, by the way, can LEGALLY lose their job or their home simply because they are transgender. They do not have the same "human rights" as you. And it is time they began having them. Thank you to Tom Quirk for getting this conversation started!
Buck Harmon
9:20 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
These very difficult life conditions that you describe seem to need improved treatment indeed. You can not legislate improved treatment, it must be carefully developed. Perhaps this is where improved attention is needed. Bad laws only make things worse...every time...
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
10:58 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Thank you, Kate. Well said.
RARE MARYLAND INDEPENDENT
9:00 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
If it were not so sad, it would be comical. Let's assume the Quirkster would hire someone transgender in his office. (Will not happen, we know it, but just for giggles).
An older gentleman has money with Mr. Quirk that he manages for him. Son does not live in Catonsville and is worried Pop is getting older, and knows at some point he may need to move him to an apartment or assisted living. They talk everyday. Here is the conversation:
Son: How are you doing Pop?
Pop: Great, just met with my advisor, Tom Quirk.
Son: Good.
Pop: Actually I met with his new assistant, Sheena.
Son: Oh, just so I know, what does Sheena look like?
Pop: She is about 6 foot 2, maybe 250 pounds.
Son: Wow, Sheena is a big lady.
Pop: Yes, with a beard.
Son: With a beard?
Pop: Yes
Son: You mean Sheena is 6 foot 2, 250 pounds with a beard?
Pop: Yes son, that is what I said.
Two weeks later, son puts por Pop in a nursing home!
Buck Harmon
9:23 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Do all rare Maryland independents have this kind of time on their hands..?
al walker
12:32 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
i found the scenario worth reading.
Immanuel Baptist Church
9:44 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
I think both sides have valid arguments, but let me put this question out there. Say you are out somewhere and need to use the Ladies Room. Just before you enter you observe someone going in dressed like a woman but you suspect is really a male (yes, I've seen some badly disguised transgender people in public before). Women - would you go in? Men - would you want your wife going in? Parents - would you let your daughter go in? A truly transgendered person is not dangerous, but a rapist is. Does this bill make it easier for a rapist or pervert to carry out their deeds? Now you can call 911 if your have suspicions, but if they can legally use a Ladies Room, what are the police going to do?
Buck Harmon
9:56 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
I doubt that the Police are looking forward to dealing with this at all...
Sara
5:50 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
See, that's the difference right there. You wouldn't see a rapist going in. He would wait until no one is looking and then sneak in and hide until he could attack. The trans woman, regardless of how feminine you think she looks, just wants to walk in, do her business and leave again. Thank you, for pointing out that they are very, very different.
And let's say you call 911 simply because someone walks into a women's restroom that doesn't meet your qualifications for feminine beauty. Chances are incredibly high that you are wrong in doing so - as high as if you'd called for anyone else. You've just wasted taxpayer money, occupied the police's time possibly endangering someone else, and ruined someone's day. All because you don't like people who are different from you and would accuse the entire group of some horrendous crime (of which most of them are physically incapable) rather than show compassion or at least tolerance.
CKnick
10:51 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
The "sky is falling" argument is getting old.
To anyone that has never had to deal with sexual identity/orientation issues, please try to have some compassion for people struggling with these issues. I think it is pathetic that in this day and age, we are fighting over someone's right to use a bathroom. Can we take this negative energy and try to focus it on helping others?
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
10:57 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Thank you, CKnick.
Josephine Hlatki
4:56 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
CKnick, it's not about bathrooms alone. See my other posts.
Sara
5:52 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
No kidding. Look at all the other cities, counties and entire states that have enacted such non-discrimination laws...and not one has found that the scare stores presented here came to fruition. Not One.
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
11:08 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
It is encouraging to see such support for transgender people.
If transgender people truly had the same rights as everyone else, they would have recourse to law if they were fired, passed over for a promotion, or evicted because they were transgender. So far, they do not seem to have the same rights as everyone else, and this discrimination is shameful.
I would encourage people to make an effort to know someone who is transgender and learn more about the difficulties they have faced.
RARE MARYLAND INDEPENDENT
11:37 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
AND - step up to the plate and hire these transgender folks in their privately owned companies. I am sure Mr. Quirk will be willing to put in writing that HE will do so, to be quickly followed by all members of the delegation who vote for this bill. Since most of our esteemed representatives are attorneys, a new school could be developed. I see THE TRANSGENDER PARALEGAL INSTITUTE coming soon.
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
12:31 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Hello RMI, lovely to see you here. What an interesting idea. It would be wonderful if any transgender person qualified for a job could find employment without being discriminated against. Your idea about the school gave me a giggle. Thanks.
CKnick
11:12 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
For information purposes:
1. Approx. 2/3 of rapes are committed by someone known to the victim (not a man dressed as a woman in public restroom).
2. 73% of assaults are perpetrated by a non-stranger (not a man dressed as a woman in a public restroom).
Etc....Etc...Etc...
The above stats are from the website listed below. Education about rape/incest is key when making these arguments.
http://www.rainn.org/get-information/statistics/sexual-assault-offenders
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
12:35 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Thank you for sharing this information!
Immanuel Baptist Church
11:30 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
So you're saying that if you had a daughter/niece/child-you're-babysitting, etc with you, and she needed to use the bathroom and a "woman" that was obviously a man dressed as a woman went in ahead of you, you would feel comfortable letting her in there? Would you at least go in there with her?
CKnick
11:44 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Again, those that have never had to question their orientation or gender identity will only see a man dressed as a woman. I would just assume this is a person that needs to go to the bathroom. There are other signals I would use in determining if someone was a "criminal" or a "rapist".
Tim
11:55 am on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Yes. I would. Although (once again) in all honesty, I'd mention to her "If you at all feel uncomfortable, or if that person is looking at you funny, come out and let me know".
edit: it were my young daughter, I might even take her to a different bathroom, or wait until said person is done.
Thing is, that's my decision and 'on me' if that would be how I felt about it. It's not the fault of said transgender person.
No, I'd never go into the ladies room with anyone. Most of the (few) places I'd ever have my child use the restroom are places that have 'family' restroom options as well.
Really, I think this whole male/female bathroom scenario is a bit overblown. If someone is using other businesses restrooms with any kind of frequency - unless it's for diaper changing - then I'd suggest that person had a bigger issue.
Immanuel Baptist Church
12:07 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
I'm not judging here - I'm just trying to understand how this will affect ALL of us if the bill is passed, and see both sides. Quite honestly it would make me feel very uncomfortable to go in a restroom with a person of the opposite sex no matter how they're dressed. However, a man dressed as a woman obviously can't use the men's room either. I don't know what the answer is truthfully, but I don't think I should be labeled as bigoted or whatever for feeling weird about having a man in the ladies room with me, even if he perceives himself as a woman. I think I have a right to feel this way.
CKnick
12:19 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Karen,
I don't think you are a bigot. I understand your concerns. I am only trying to think about the other side's perspective. Something that you take for granted everyday, like using a public restroom, can be a very challenging for a transgendered person. I do know a number of post operative transgendered individuals that are legally and physically a woman. While masculine traits may remain (size, facial bone structure, etc.) they have no other choice but to use a ladies room. The anxiety that they feel in these public situations is something that I don't think the average person fully understands.
Josephine Hlatki
4:58 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Karen, see my other comments here....there are a few. I give all you need to know about this and to understand the seriousness of it. It's not bathrooms alone.
Mark Patro
12:21 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
16 States & DC & 143 cities in the United States prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity or expression. Now show us the evidence that rapes have occurred in these places as a result of passing this type of legislation…
State of Nevada, State of Connecticut,State of Massachusetts,Susquehanna TownshipPA, Nashville Tennessee,Kalamazoo MI, Broward FL,Columbia SC,
Detroit MI, Gainesville FL, Hamtramck MI,Kansas City MO, Oxford OH,State of Colorado,State of Iowa, Lake Worth FL, Milwaukee WI,Palm Beach County FL,
State of Oregon, Saugatuck MI, State of Vermont, West Palm Beach FL, Bloomington IN, Cincinnati OH,Easton PA,Ferndale MI,Hillsboro OR, Johnson County IA, King County WA,Lansdowne PA,Lansing MI,State of New Jersey, Swarthmore PA,
State of Washington, West Chester PA,Gulfport FL,State of Hawaii,State of Illinois
Indianapolis IN,Lincoln City OR,
Mark Patro
12:22 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
and
State of Maine,Northampton MA, Washington DC,
Albany NY, Austin TX, Beaverton OR,Bend OR,Burien WA,Oakland CA,Miami Beach FL,Tompkins County NY,State of California,State of New Mexico,Carbondale IL,Covington KY,El Paso TX, Ithaca NY,Key West FL,Lake Oswego OR, Monroe Co FL, Oakland CA,Peoria IL,San Diego CA,Scranton PA,Springfield IL,University City MO,Allentown PA,Baltimore MD,Boston MA,Buffalo NY,Chicago IL,Cook County IL,
Dallas TX,Decatur IL, East Lansing MI,Erie County PA,New Hope PA,New York City NY,Philadelphia PA,Salem OR,Tacoma WA,Denver CO,Huntington Woods MI,Multnomah Co OR,State of Rhode Island,Rochester NY,Suffolk County NY,Atlanta GA,Boulder CO,DeKalb IL,Madison WI,Portland OR,Ann Arbor MI,Jefferson County KY,Lexington-Fayette Co KY,Louisville KY,Tucson AZ,Benton County OR,Santa Cruz County CA,New Orleans LA,Toledo OH,West Hollywood CA,York PA,Cambridge MA,
Evanston IL,Olympia WA,Pittsburgh PA,Ypsilanti MI, Iowa City IA,Grand Rapids MI,
San Francisco CA,State of Minnesota,Santa Cruz CA,St Paul MN,Seattle WA, Harrisburg PA,Los Angeles CA,Urbana IL,Champaign IL,Minneapolis MN
RARE MARYLAND INDEPENDENT
12:36 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
I am with you! Because if any evidence existed that this did take place, MSNBC,CNN, ABC, CBS and NBC would be all over it! I mean, they are all over Obama and Holder - demanding answers with respect to the border patrol agent who was killed under the"Fast and the Furious." They have also worked dozens of stories about the loss of over 500 Million Dollars for Solyndra that any two year accounting student could determine was a loser.
Ooops, they have not run these stories. Sorry, but I am sure when they finish up reviewing Mitt Romney's tax return, they will get right on it!
al walker
12:43 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
what is the transgender population in the united states? does anyone have that info?
al walker
12:47 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
and the population in maryland, as well as in baltimore county? anyone?
Josephine Hlatki
5:07 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Al, there are only about 140 in Maryland and those have not necessarily had the surgery to change them completely. The correct term for them is Transexual...at least that's the closest we can come to it. All the other terms, transgender, gender identity, gender expression, etc. are not people who had the surgery. That term "Transexual" isn't eve in the bill. See my other posts with links to descriptions of those terms. You will see those terms are about the many sexual desires they have and not physical changes to their bodies. This is what the BCC wants to unleash on the public.
Transexuals could just have breast implants and they could still have their genitalia they were born with.
Johns Hopkins was one of the few hospitals that did the surgery until they discovered it was not working so they stopped it. The LGBTs will lead you to believe that Hopkins is going to start the surgeries again. I checked it out..they have no such plans.
http://www.narth.com/docs/johnhopkins.html
http://www.narth.com/docs/reassignment.html
Sara
6:31 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
Anita, John Hopkins shut down their gender clinic when Paul McHugh took over. His fairly extreme religious views and those of NARTH (an organization he has been a part of since its inception) blinded them to any compassion for trans people despite what the Bible says about them and despite how Jesus told people to treat each other. They also ignore almost 20 years of really good neurological findings that show that some brain areas develop male or female and in trans people those sites match their identity not the genitals they were born with. Sites such as your brain's map of the body, used for things like motion, and where your sense of Self resides.
You are citing people at the far extreme, the ones who would deny anyone who is not man enough nor woman enough any and all basic rights as humans. The ones who proclaim that trans people should be "removed from the human ecology".
Kate
1:56 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
I have to say I'm also a bit disturbed by what seems to be the interchanging of a t/g person in the restroom with "pervert going after my children" in the restroom. How I care for the safety of my two young children in public has nothing to do with someone else's right to use those public places. A person shouting to themself on a public street would give me enough cause for concern to hold my children closer, walk faster, and/or take another route. Just because it turns out that person was on a Bluetooth in an argument with someone on the other end does not mean my concern was invalid - it just means I personally reacted in response to what I thought might be dangerous for my children. I have that right. As anyone would have the right to wait or to choose another restroom if you see someone you feel is questionable in whatever way before taking (or sending) your children into that same restroom. You might be overreacting. You might not. But just as the screamer on the corner has every right to be there, so does a t/g person have the right to use the restroom for the purpose it was intended. The people you should be fearing are the perverts and pedophiles, not t/g folks, who I would venture to say have likely never used their access to either gender restroom (legal or otherwise) to perpetrate a sex crime. Sorry, no link for that one - just going with my gut!
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
4:13 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Well said :-)
Josephine Hlatki
5:20 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
I've been trying to say that it's not those who have actually had the sex change surgery that are the problem. It's all the rest who are jumping on the bandwagon.
Read the LGBT Conference Agenda that they had as this bill was being introducted by the Council. It's very obvious that the LGBTs lobbied for this ambiguous bill to be introduced at that same time....and under a benign title as Human Relations bill 3-12. There is more info there to read.
http://firstdonoharm7.blogspot.com/?z
It's about so much more. The agenda shows the training going on in regards to:
Getting legislation passed in MD and where to go from there.
Getting into the school curriculum, elem, middl, hs, colleges.
Conditioning the faith based communities to go along with them.
Read the rest of it....16 pages of about 19 training sessions per page.
This is serious business for them and they are traveling around the US as I fight this bill, lobbying and having similar bills passed by the unsuspecting legislators and public, who feel it's only about equal rights.
CA is stuck with this now and parents have lost all rights to their children in schools.
http://www.wnd.com/2012/01/382689/
You need to call all the councilmembers, not just yours on this. Look for my post with their phone #s.
Sara
6:49 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
Anita, once adults are able to accept that they are trans, it takes time to undo a body and persona that have been forced on them by biology and society. There are Standards of Care that recommend trans people live in their identified sex and gender for a length of time before they are eligible for surgery. How do you expect them to perform their bodily functions for those years if they cannot live as themselves? Do you understand that a (trans) woman in the men's room is likely to be sexually assaulted and if the guy finds out she's trans, probably beat up or worse? Likewise, you'd probably freak out if a trans man who has been taking testosterone for a year or longer was in the women's room.
Insofar as an "agenda" that involves trans people getting into schools and the like:
There's almost two decades of really good neurological, endocrinological and developmental biology research that shows trans people's brains are as they claim. And plenty of stats gathered to show that trans kids face a good chance of getting thrown out on the street as teens and a even better chance (ie 40%) of ending their own lives before they are 30 if they are forced to live as the sex and gender assigned at birth. Counter that with them statistically simply growing up to be happy, healthy, loving and productive adults if they are accepted by their parents and family and congregation.
That's the pudding and the proof. Everything else is just scare tactics and learned biases.
Buck Harmon
2:02 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
The law will never solve the issues that have been offered in this blog.
The best outcome would be to let nature continue to take it's course...
I'm not at all opposed to transgender equal rights. They currently exist.
I am opposed to any new law being made, regarding any topic, that will not be able to be fairly administered. This law as it is being proposed will be in-effective from day 1.
al walker
5:39 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
what did i miss? i always thought.
if you have a penis use the Mens room.
if you have a vagina use the Womans room.
when you fill forms or go to the MVA and it states check the for male or female do you check both boxes? if you get arrested and go to jail do you go in with the women or men? just seems like this is opening a huge can of worms and its flat out dumb!
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
6:35 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
It is just not so simple for some people, Al. Not everyone "fits" in his or her body. It may be hard to imagine, but some people with a penis do not consider themselves to be male, and some people with a vagina do not consider themselves to be female. Sometimes the parts do not match up with the way people feel inside. It may seem silly to you for someone to think that they are something else besides the way they were born, but it does happen, and it is NOT silly to those people.
al walker
5:42 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
i was born a tan color but i think i am really green.
RARE MARYLAND INDEPENDENT
7:09 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Al, I am with you. We must be dinosaurs from an era long ago, but I am not that old. Somehow, society has led people down into "let me be me" attitiude. I am a victim also, I don't "feel" like what my current profession is. I feel like I should be an NBA basketball star. Even though I am 5-11, can't jump, can't play defense, and can't go to my right, I feel as though society owes me special treatment. I demand that everyone look at me as an NBA star. I demand a contract similar to Lebron James. I have been a victim far too long!
This is crazy, but this is where we are heading. I knew the Quirkster was a little bit zany and out of touch when he tried to provide a history lesson prior to the biggest high school football game in Catonsville history, but I really did not think he was this out to lunch.
We get angry about it, and we vent on these sites, but the problem is we have to work and take care of families. We trust that our politicians are taking their jobs seriously instead of forming alliances that will keep them sucking of the public teat for the rest of their lives.
It is a sad state. What happened to the days of people thinking - I don't care where I came from, I don't care how hard I have it, I am going to make it! It is still out there, but everyone wants to be some sort of "victim."
al walker
7:33 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
agree. im a victim too. i feel like a nfl quarterback. i demand a contract like one of the manning brothers.
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
8:37 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
I doubt any transgender person expects to be treated like an NFL quarterback or an NBA star. They would just like to work a regular job like everyone else, live in an apartment without fear of being evicted, and GO TO THE BATHROOM when they have to go. It's not asking for anything special or more than anyone else. It's just asking to be treated THE SAME.
Tim
11:26 am on Thursday, February 9, 2012
I seriously doubt any transgender person WANTS to feel this way.
Sara
7:01 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
Wow, Al and RMI. Do you mock people with MS, too? Kick the crutches out from under people with Cerebral Palsy for fun? Use mirrors to bounce sunlight at albino's to watch them flinch?
Your argument is false. There is no biological, neurological genetic and endocrinological basis for "feeling like a quarterback". But they do exist for being male or female. And it's been repeatedly shown and peer-reviewed and published that trans people have the brain sites (and often, endocrinology and some skeletal traits, etc) of the sex and gender with which they identify.
Just because you have not personally experienced something, just because you have no idea what living with a condition could possibly be like does not mean it doesn't exist.
Buck Harmon
7:12 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
An illness, medical or mental condition can not be legislated away... help is needed in treatment ..not law..
Sara
7:03 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
True but discrimination based on that condition (which harms no one else, nor affects someone's ability to do their job, pay rent or a mortgage, or urinate) can be helped with laws. The medical treatments are well known and they work wonders, but it takes time for them to work and once they have someone's history should not preclude them from living a productive, happy life.
Buck Harmon
7:19 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
i agree with you Sara, and I must say that you have been on a roll here...
I believe that the very best treatment should be developed and made available.. if it's needed. Are all transgender human beings being discriminated against or just a small percentage of the small percentage of transgender population?
I have heard cases of fat people being discriminated against... the individual has to accept, or buy into the feeling of being discriminated against before it becomes real.
Therapy and support go a long way in building the confidence needed to not accept being discriminated against. Improvement along these lines would benefit transgender human beings much more than a quick Quirk bad law that will not be able to be effective over the long haul.. .. treatment will have a positive direction that will get better with time.
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
8:47 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Obviously, because any attempts to legislate an end to bigotry have done nothing. Maybe if we could find some sort of treatment...
Kate
8:54 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Oh, Laura. we are so on the same page! Nicely said.
RARE MARYLAND INDEPENDENT
9:18 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Don't worry Buck - when the liberals have nothing else, they pull out the race or the bigot card. You are in good company. My hope is one day Kate, you come into private industry, and you are a business owner and responsible for generating revenue to pay your employees and other costs. And you are on the hook for loans that you took out to expand your business.
Your hired "Steve" to run the retail side of your business. Steve decides he no longer wants to be "Steve", but rather "Sheena." Watch as your customers don't return as Steve starts transforming into "Sheena." Oh, those customers, they were bigots anyway! Who needs em! Well, you do! Now you have have to cut some of your folks, but you can cut Sheena, because the lawsuit is coming if you do.
After all this, Sheena comes to you and says "Um, Mr. or Mrs. Boss, I need to take some time off to have some parts removed or inverted and have some parts bolted on to me."
Lord knows what this is going to do to your insurance rates.
Can't happen? Just wait and see. Again - let's demand that ALL members who vote FOR this sign an oath that the next person they hire will be a transgendered person.
Maryland is the land of the government paycheck, but even here - more folks work in the private sector and are faced with issues like this everday instead of living in the fantasy world of government employment.
Kate
8:52 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Al, RMI, Buck~
I am also a hard working citizen. I have a full time job at a government agency. I have a husband and two children. I have a BA from a state university. I am a white, middle-class, average height, average weight woman. I am exactly the kind of person you would consider "normal". However, that does not preclude me from being able to see outside myself and to consider that other people may have problems or issues that I might not. Their rights, which may not ever apply to my life or my needs, are still valid. Transgender people are not ill - medically or mentally. They are living through something you will likely never understand. They are not "acting" like victims. They are victims every day of the prejudices of people like yourselves. You don't have to understand or agree to be empathetic. They are not demanding special treatment or rights beyond those you enjoy every single day. And they do not have the same rights as you. In a majority of states, they can legally be fired or evicted simply because they are transgender. I do not expect to change anyone's mind on this issue, but I hope that after reading the replies to your comments you will consider educating yourself about the transgender community before you suggest that you have any understanding of the impact of this bill on the people of our community - and make no mistake, there absolutely are transgender people in our community. And I will continue to help fight for their basic human rights.
Buck Harmon
9:44 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Kate, The concerns that I have are regarding the making of new law...law in general. There are currently laws that would address transgender difficulties. If these laws are not being enforced effectively, perhaps that issue needs to be addressed. The addition of new law will potentially clog the courts with frivolous law suits that can never be proven either way. Basic human rights exist inside of everyone..fighting for them is far from basic. Just as transgender condition exists..so do natural basic human rights. I have made suggestions of better treatment rather than bad law.. I remain of that belief.
It's not about Transgender human beings, but about the creation of another bad law.
Buck Harmon
9:50 pm on Wednesday, February 8, 2012
Oh, and I don't consider myself normal ...
Laura Blanco Dzingeleski
8:09 am on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Thank you for your reply, Buck. I appreciate you taking the time to clarify your statements. How else would you give a group of people recourse to law when their rights to equal treatment are being infringed? Was it Brown vs Board of Ed that made a significant difference for people of color in the south, that were not receiving equal treatment? It seems that sometimes we can't depend on people to do the right thing if left to themeselves.
Buck Harmon
9:09 am on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Try to force the issue of equal enforcement of existing protection law....
Kate
10:54 am on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Buck-
I, too, appreciate your clarification and agree that our litigious society has caused many unnecessary problems. However, if not for new laws and Constitutional amendments, women would not be allowed to vote or own property today; neither would Black Americas or other people of color. Not so very long ago black and white Americans were required to use separate facilities for drinking, eating, and usinbthe restroom. I do not believe those things would have changed if we just "let nature take its course". Sometimes people need a little push to do the right thing.
Tim
11:27 am on Thursday, February 9, 2012
No, they need a big push, unfortunately. Some curmudgeons on both sides still don't buy in - but progress is always slow. It's way easier (and more comfortable) for people to go socially backwards then forwards.
Tim
4:11 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Daughter: For argument's sake - what kind of treatment do you suggest?
Paul Amirault
4:49 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
"Even blacks", what is that supposed to mean? We kept the blacks away from the whites but put them in separate male/female bathrooms? What was the corrective treatment for the "blacks"? Just askin'.
Kate
3:49 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
RMI-
My husband and I do own a small business. We have loans and a mortgage. I do understand - more than you might imagine. I will NOT promise my next hire will be a transgender person, but I do absolutely promise that any qualified transgender applicant I have for any job in the future will have the exact same likelihood of being hired as every other applicant. And that is all they are asking for.
DaughterofAKing-
Your view is too far off the mark for me to even attempt to enlighten you, but I will say this: treatment to "help" a transgender person not be transgender would be about as effective as treatment for a lion to become a penguin. They don't need treatment; they need the ignorant to become educated.
And now, for my own sanity, I will stop beating my head against this particular brick wall. Cheers to all!
Sara
7:07 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
No kidding. The company I work for has hired three trans people in the time I've been here (there are some fields where this is more likely, like IT). All three were *incredibly* dedicated, hard working people. We lost them because we couldn't match the pay they got elsewhere. Oh, and our state has excellent laws protecting them from discrimination...
Josephine Hlatki
4:16 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Here is what you need to know about this bill. It prohibits discrimination against "Sexual Orientation", Gender Identity or Expression". Sounds benign enough, right? Well, when you research what these terms mean, you find out it's not so benign.
See the descriptions on these terms. You will notice that "Transexual" is not in the bill. Yet, that is the closest term used for anyone having an actual sex change surgery of any kind, be it only breast implants or the removal of the genitalia and replacing it with plastic surgery to make new genitalia.
Once you read the descriptions, you will understand the concerns we have about this bill. It opens the door for anyone, no matter what sexual desires they have to claim discrimination.
One trans testified that he, dressed as a she is a school teacher in Baltimore County and wants to cross dress in the classroom while teaching the children. He/she went on to say that he/she wants to teach the children about his/her lifestyle and to try it. If that isn't opening the door to indoctrination, I don't know what is. He/she will now have the right to teach about his/her sex preference and all the other you will see in the descriptions below. CA has this now and parental rights are gone.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_orientation#Sexual_orientations_included
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_identity
http://www.wordiq.com/definition/Transgender
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transsexualism
RARE MARYLAND INDEPENDENT
4:23 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Daughter - thanks for telling it like it is! Even one of the posters indicated "they don't want to feel this way." They need serious treatment, because they are ill, like an alocoholic or drug addict. You are correct - those in the shakedown business - the Reverend Al and JJ, try to lump transgenders in with blacks. They do it because they want to get paid. It is an industry.
Be the man or woman on the street reporter and ask the question about men who dress up as women and see what kind of answer you get.
Kate - looks like both your company and my company will have the same amount of transgendered employees a year from now!
Josephine Hlatki
4:53 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Call and say NO to Bill 3-12 and explain why.
Tom Quirk Wrote the Bill
council1@baltimorecountymd.gov
410-887-0896
Vicki Almond co-sponsored the bill
council2@baltimorecountymd.gov
410-887-3385
Kenneth Oliver co-sponsored the bill
council4@baltimorecountymd.gov
410-887-0784
Cathy Bevins co-sponsored the bill
council6@baltimorecountymd.gov
410-887-5223
John Olszewski Johnny O
council7@baltimorecountymd.gov
410-887-7174
Josephine Hlatki
4:55 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
There are about 140 transexuals who have had some sort of sex change surgery in MD. That figure is divided among all the counties and could just mean breast implants but still have their genitalia they were born with. So this bill is about a very minute group of people.
They say it's about getting and keeping a job. This bill covers a lot more than that. It's a virtual mine field, just waiting for every kind of lawsuit to give them more and more leverage over society as we know it.
The bottom line, they can get jobs now as cross dressers. It's all about getting to the children and forcing their lifestyle on them through the govenment.
A parent has the right to raise their child as they see fit. If that parent chooses teach their child about the LGBT lifestyle, that's their option in the privacy of their home.
What we don't want is for the LGBT lifestyle being forced on the children. Nobody should have the right to mold our children to their sexually deviant lifestyle or any other lifestyle. It's the one thing we have left and that is about to be taken from us as parents.
CKnick
5:15 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Ms. Schatz,
I hate to even go there, but I will. Are you for or against the the Civil Marriage Protection Act that is currently under way in Annapolis? The reason I bring this up is that you are now bringing the LGBT "lifestyle" into the argument.
Oh, one more thing, I hope one of your children is not "different" (i.e. LGBT) for their sake. I am not sure you would be very understanding and tolerant.
Sara
3:24 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
"It's a virtual mine field, just waiting for every kind of lawsuit"
No, it isn't. Just don't treat people as sub-human just because they are different and there will be no cause or justification for lawsuits.
"The bottom line, they can get jobs now as cross dressers"
Yes, just like those women who insist on wearing pants. The conjured specter of 'cross-dressers' is a strange one. It assumes a consistent presentation of men and women. Men shall only carry wallets and briefcases; no bags of any sort. Women, of course shall only carry purses. Men's hair must be no longer than say, an inch and women cannot have short hair lest they be mistaken for a man. Where do you draw the line?
By focusing only on the bathroom issue - which in reality *is* non existent - the discussion forgets that this bill also protects non-lesbian, non-trans women who wear dresses and have long hair but want to weld for a living as much as it does straight, non-trans men who cook or clean for a living and like to wear happy, colorful shirts who want to (or must) ride the bus to work.
And yes, it protects the few hundred people (according to the stats presented in these comments) so that they can also live happy, productive lives.
It prohibits discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations based on gender identity and expression.
Josephine Hlatki
5:28 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
I bring it here because it's in the bill.
CKnick, it pretty obvious you may be an LGBT from your defensive attitude here. That's ok.
So glad you brought up the word tolerant. That word gets thrown around a lot by the LGBTs. First tolerance of them is taught school, then it goes on from there to complete indoctrination.
I am not addressing the Same Sex Marriage bill with you or anyone else here. You are not going to steer this conversation away from Bill 3-12.
Trying to insult me or get my dander up won't work either. I've been called every name in the book and accused of hate and fear mongering and then some. I know the facts and they speak for themselves.
CKnick
6:59 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
I am a proud LGBT, as you would call me, but I am a compassionate human being first.
I also wanted to let you know that there is no indoctrination as you call it. You and your family are safe. We LGBTs are born this way. You obviously don't know the facts. Again, I hope your children are not an LGBT......
Kate
6:58 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Well, I thought I was done, but then came Anita. I do not doubt you have been called many different things, the least of which brig intolerant. The idea that the agenda of the LGBT community I indoctrination is borderline psychotic. I can assume from your posts that you are not "an LGBT" (by the way-darn near possible to be all four at the same time). Would any indoctrination have worked on you? If you'd had a teacher or other adult tell you as an impressionable child to "try out" being a lesbian, would you have gone to bed with a woman, given it a shot, and decided whether it was for you or not? Of course not. Evasive the idea
Sara
3:14 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
"If you'd had a teacher or other adult tell you as an impressionable child to "try out" being a lesbian, would you have gone to bed with a woman, given it a shot, and decided whether it was for you or not? Of course not."
This is an important point well made. Non-transgender &/or non-gay people need to ask themselves, at what point did they "choose" to be straight or non-trans. Walking through that exercise points out that it was not a choice at all but rather an intrinsic attribute of their Self not some learned behavior or choice. Although it's not always possible to walk a mile in someone else's shoes, this at least helps to put the landscape in perspective.
Josephine Hlatki
9:56 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
You know what? That will never be known, so here we are in disagreement on exposure of children being confusing for them. Documentation shows the psychiatric associations have said point blank, this is a mental disorder and should not be exposed to impressionable children. Johns Hopkins stopped the surgeries and opend thier Sexual Dysfunction Clinic for a reason.
Sara
5:37 am on Monday, February 13, 2012
Anita, stating "impressionable children" should not be "exposed" to trans people is ridiculous and dishonest. It's been found false by everyone except Paul McHugh.
You know, the guy that in his book said that before he first set foot in John Hopkins, he was determined on ideological grounds to shut the Gender Clinic program down, regardless of evidence. And, as you pointed out, he decided to focus 'research' at John Hopkins on sex disorders instead:
"McHugh…is the man whose report to the court in one case stated that a defendant’s harassing phone calls were not obscene - including the call that detailed a fantasy of a 4-year-old sex slave locked in a dog cage and fed human waste. At least eight men have been convicted of sexually abusing Maryland children while under treatment at the “sex disorders” clinic McHugh runs at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine - abuse the doctors did not report, citing client confidentiality. When Maryland law was changed to require that doctors report child molestation, the clinic fought it and advised patients on how to get around the law. The memo to patients suggested that molesters report their pedophilic activities to their lawyers, who could in turn tell staff; attorney-client privilege would then protect the molesters from being reported. This memo was fully approved by the boss - Dr. Paul McHugh…”
He went on in 2000 to advise the Vatican, right about the time the priest molestation scandals broke.
Kate
7:07 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Sorry. Hit submit.
Because the idea of being sexually attracted to another woman is as unnatural for you as being with a man is for an actual lesbian. It is not a decision, a phase, or a political agenda. It is not a lifestyle or indoctrinated thought process. It is who you are. Your gender identity, sexual orientation or attraction, and all other terms you are throwing about are who a person is. It cannot be changed with therapy, prayer, or external pressure. The sexual behavior may change, (a gay man can choose to marry a woman, have children, and live a closeted life) but that person is still who they are inside. I honestly can't believe we still live in a world where people don't get this. And CKnick, I agree with you - if some of these posters' children happen to be LGBT themselves, they will certainly need a village when their families walk away....
CKnick
7:18 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
Thank you Kate......
Buck Harmon
7:25 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
If a newly proposed law has the potential to make things worse, should it be pushed forward or further examined?
I like the idea of a village of families..
Buck Harmon
7:28 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
The real beauty of this entire blog is the fact that some soul searching has been accomplished..
al walker
8:49 pm on Thursday, February 9, 2012
no one has yet posted or submited the answer to what I asked days ago.
a). what is the transgender population in the united states?
b). what is the transgender population in the state of maryland?
c). what is the transgender population in baltimore county?
Sara
2:56 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
Hi Al,
Figures are scarce because there's no money in studying the issue. But, best estimates based on data gleaned from sources such as England's socialized health care system put the incidence of people with a gender variance extreme enough to medically and socially transition at somewhere around 0.03 to 0.3 percent of the population. My guess would be to double that or so to cover people who suppress and repress due to strongly disapproving and sometimes violent environments or subcultures and because the stats don't include those who commit suicide rather than not be able to live quietly and peacefully as themselves.
Insofar as individual locals, the incidence of trans people is amazingly consistent across all demographics, across time and across genetics, backing up the designation of it being a basic variation of human biology. That is one of the reasons discrimination based on it is morally wrong.
Josephine Hlatki
11:09 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
I'm afraid you're not going to get a good answer. See what they say here. It all depends on what you mean by transgender.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_many_people_in_this_world_are_transgender
RARE MARYLAND INDEPENDENT
3:51 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
This just in:
Studies by the Maryland Research Institute Of I Will Tell You Whatever You Want If You Pay Me Enough have determined that approximatey .003% to .03% of Americans are suffering from Dino identification problems. Apparently, this percentage of the population believes they are trapped in the body of Barney, the PBS childrens Dino star.
Maryland Governor Martin O'Malley was recently reached and had the following comment. "I am aware of the many Marylanders who have hidden this condition to family and friends for years. I encourage them to come out and proudly wear their Barney outfits." Governor O'Malley has also declared that Purple Fridays will continue even though the Ravens season has ended. "I envison Ravens fans and Barney fans proudly wearing their colors with pride on Fridays as we move Maryland forward."
In an unrelated matter, the Maryland General Assembly recently passed a 20% tax on all Dino Wear. Maryland Lawmaker Mike Miller commented "We are concerned about the wear and tear on our roads and also the long term environmental effects of the Dino Wear." All proceeds from the taxes are to be dedicated to the Maryland Transportation Fund..
Kate
4:50 pm on Friday, February 10, 2012
RMI-
It would be nice if, just once, you presented an argument based on actual reality, statistics, or studies. You making up ridiculous and insulting scenarios as analogies for what the LGBT communities face on a regular basis is not in any way productive or thought-provoking to anyone who has half a working brain their head. You may not believe the studies or think they are paid for by those who want a particular result, but at least they are real. Throwing out "Dino identity" and "I want an NBA contract" analogies as a comparison to a genuine social issue shows you to be an uninformed, ignorant dolt. Please. Think before you analogize again....
Josephine Hlatki
9:51 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
We've been presenting statistics and documentation to back up our concerns with this bill both at the hearings and to the individual council members.
Kate
9:15 am on Saturday, February 11, 2012
CKnick- I am a loud and proud straight ally and will continue to e so until things change. And though I am sure you are used to it, this treatment of LGBT persons is unacceptable!
Sara- you are officially my new hero. Thank you for your well-thought out, educated, and beautifully stated arguments. Rock on!
Mike McAuliffe
11:17 pm on Saturday, February 11, 2012
A woman was photographed for this article (pictured above) asking the Council to include language that would protect people formally identifying as gay to be afforded protections. What the hell does that mean? This crap is getting out of hand. Do people transform between all the various types of sexual identities for fun now? This is the can of worms that the opponents of such silly law have been referring to.
Josephine Hlatki
9:47 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
Mike, if you're talking about the African American woman, she is an ex transgender and wants equal protection, too. It seems ex gays and ex transgenders are not looked kindly upon by the LGBT community.
To answer your question about people transforming between the sexual identites, yes and the term "Gender Identity OR Expression" is in the bill, along with Sexual Orientation. You really need to come to the work session on 2-14-12 to speak out and see what the concerns are about this. Be there by 1:30 to sign in.
We are being called bigots, liars, hate mongerers and worse to try to discredit us. We don't deny people rights, but not by taking rights from others in the process.
Right is right but this bill is so wrong.
Mike McAuliffe
11:28 pm on Saturday, February 11, 2012
If a homeowner has an extra room in their house and places an add "Room for Rent... women only". Who is being discriminated in this case? Who has legal recourse as the law stands? Who gains legal recourse if the law passes? Will this action become illegal?
Mark P. are you there?
Tim
1:44 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
In your case scenario, because it's a private homeowner, and not a business. Enforcement of any 'discrimination' would never take place.
If we're talking a business (say, an apartment complex) ? Then it's all women, both 'conventional' and transgendered (to women).
Pretty simple logic here, even for 1:30am in the morning.
Mark Patro
6:34 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
this legislation will not change anything in relation to someone renting a room in his or her private residence.
Josephine Hlatki
9:48 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
Mark is giving misinformation to make this bill seem benign. There is nothing in the bill to protect the homowner.
Mark Patro
2:06 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012
Anita, there is nothing in this bill to protect the homeowner because the homeowner is already protected. Call your lawyer and ask her.
Buck Harmon
2:29 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012
Great point Mark Patro,
The transgender population does not need additional protection by perceived law because the laws already exist.
The same for everyone.... only way of possible fair enforcement.
Mike McAuliffe
3:08 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012
Tim, your logic sounds logical because it coincides with the common sense notion that this homeowner sould have the right to refuse her room to someone that she does not feel comfortable with in their home. But when businesses are "thought policed" to the point in which this bill is attempting, it gives good reason to think that the homeowner is next.
Where in this bill does it exempt the homeowner who has an apartment in the basement of their home? This Bill fails to cover all bases. Mark suggested we consult a lawyer for the answer. Consulting the County Code should suffice. The fact that a lawyer need be consulted for an answer simply enforces the complexity issues that this bill presents.
Tim
10:21 am on Monday, February 13, 2012
Mike: I hear your point, however let's not pretend this is the only bill - passed or proposed on any issue - that requires a lawyer to interpret the complexity of issues it covers. Heck, we could go back to removal of segregation for a recent example.
What I'm seeing is too many people here attempting to use legal crutches to hide their latent bigotry. Just like back then.
Buck Harmon
10:28 am on Monday, February 13, 2012
Tim,
You have just proven the point that this law is poorly developed and will never be effective... that's my take on your last comment.
Tim
11:05 am on Monday, February 13, 2012
Buck: Your opinion is your own, of course.
Fact, however, is that many laws on the books require lawyer interpretation. Otherwise, there wouldn't be so many of them.
This attempt at throwing wording arguments at the bill, is just thinly veiled bigotry from individuals who are just intelligent bigots - versus stupid ones.
This of course, is just my opinion.
Here's another opinion: If humanity sucked just a little less, we wouldn't NEED legislation for this.
Buck Harmon
10:43 am on Sunday, February 12, 2012
130 comments....if that's not a can of worms squirm-in, I don't know what is...
Mike McAuliffe
3:30 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012
Mark,
Though I disagree with your points, I will admit that I respect your diligence in what you believe. My question to you is this. When and if this bill passes and a sticky legal situation arises where a person illegitimately uses this law to falsely gain a job or housing will you be there to step in and support the business owner or homeowner (for instance the homeowner who is sued by a man who claims he was discriminated against by their refusal to rent to him, because they were looking for a woman.)
Mike McAuliffe
3:49 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012
If Mark is successful in his quest, he will have proved his power in the defense of humankind.
Mark, will you be willing to take on the cause of those that have been looked over for employment or quietly let go, because they are or became obese, extremely skinny, have a physical deformity, like a hairlip, snarled teeth, balding head. How about the folks wishing to keep their long ZZ Top beard or pony tail. How about dwarfs, and people with birth marks on their face. How about the people with tatoos that they can not or may not want to remove.
All the drug reps. that come into my doctor's office are gorgeous young ladies. Will you be there to fight for the rights of the ugly drug reps. denied a job. You really shouldn't stop with the LGB community. I hope you haven't forgotten about all that unfairness in the business world.
Buck Harmon
4:19 pm on Sunday, February 12, 2012
lots of old people have a tough time getting hired too..
Lorna D. Rudnikas
9:27 pm on Monday, February 20, 2012
Just a very mild, meek question.....at what point is a man who feels he is and announces that he is a woman to be accepted as a woman? Is it when makeup, dresses, bras, long hair, become the garb worn, is it after surgery, or simply when verbally declared....are we to then refer to these folks as women? At what point in our elementary school system will this societal change be taught? Just trying to get a more clear picture of the future. And, if a person who suffers from "split personality disorder" with male and female personalities...a most serious disorder...when and what effort will be brought to the forefront to protect these folks from discrimination? Just asking. Homeless folks ...many of whom are mentally ill were literally thrown out of institutions years ago because our government did not want to pay the bills and so they handily labeled them "homeless" and threw these helpless folks in with the mix of folks who had lost jobs, etc. and consequently their homes. Please forgive me...just a retired workerbee trying to figure it all out. Been looking it up via google...hard to really get a bead on it. Where, or where does the gender end and trans begin and become complete? Sorry, ya'll have probably gotten beyond these questions...I must have missed it.
Buck Harmon
10:25 pm on Monday, February 20, 2012
Great questions Lorna, mild, meek and unanswered to date.
Reasons that I believe this type of legislation will NEVER be able to be fairly enforced in any direction.... curious to see any attempt at a solid answer here.